Saturday, February 1, 2014

In Search Of...

I've posted before about "The ones that got away"….every Lilly lover worth their weight in Elsas and Murfees has those pieces they missed out on. My list changes from time to time as I find and discover old pieces and add to my collection. While I was pregnant, I finally obtained my "holy grail" Lilly, the Dasha dress in white tailwind! I'm looking forward to wearing it soon. Lately I've been paying extra special attention to eBay and various buy and sell pages on Facebook for the currents on my "In Search Of…" list. 

The Reecey dress from Spring 2008. I bought this dress back in 2008 and it arrived with stains and the bow was falling off. The shop I bought it from didn't have any more and I never found it again.

The Murfee scarf in Itam Apricot. I have a red car coat I wear very often and it would look fabulous with this scarf. A little Lilly in the winter…what could be better?


The Leandra dress in Just Add Mint! I remember clearly when this dress came out. I loved it but it was impractical for a pregnant lady. Now that I'm back in the game, I'm absolutely kicking myself for not getting it….it was even on sale in the Endless Summer Sale as well as Rue La La last year. Maybe someone will have one they tire of I'll find someday…!


I know you've got those pieces you're "In Search Of"! 
What are they?!

Friday, January 31, 2014

Perception


Last week I was dining with my parents at Canter's, an old restaurant with a bar, deli, and bakery, in the Fairfax district of LA. We had a wonderful meal and were excited to pick up some goodies in the bakery to take home.

I made a beeline for the poppy seed strudel to see if they had any in stock. There was a woman being helped and a woman standing next to her. I asked if I might push the stroller by to get in the corner. While I was perusing the strudel, my father came up and started ordering. I saw the woman I had asked to get by pacing around behind us but thought nothing of it. A few minutes later while we were finishing up our order (rye bread, cookies, strudel and the most amazing black and white cookies on the planet), the woman from earlier came up to me and was clearly DISTRESSED.

"YOU!" she yelled. "YOU forced your way by and pushed me out of line with your stroller!" Perplexed, I responded, "Excuse me?" "You FORCED your stroller by me and cut me in line!!!"

She was with a man who added, "…and then YOU (my mother, who now had the stroller) pushed the stroller into me!" "I'm sorry," I said, "I have no idea what you're talking about. I asked to get by to see the poppy seed-" "Yes! …and FORCED me out of line so you could cut!"

Things then reached a fever pitch as I continued standing there like an idiot trying to understand why this woman was SO UPSET when her mate came up to me yelling, "…..you're TERRIBLE!!!! You're TERRIBLE PEOPLE!!!!" GO HOME!!!!!!!!!!" when I couldn't help it. I laughed in his face. It's strudel, people.

At this point my poor father who was finishing up and had no idea what was transpiring behind him turned around and said, "What's going on?" I put my arm around him and, still laughing, told him not to worry.

While my mother was concerned the couple would get violent since they were SOOOO distressed, I couldn't help but keep laughing. This couple, maybe 40-45 years old (so not young and foolish, but far from elderly and senile), had their evenings RUINED by our alleged indiscretions.

This whole exchange got me thinking about perception. This couple got so upset by their perception of events….but did nothing to stop what was happening. The woman could have said, "I'm sorry-- I'm next" when my father started ordering or could have said she waiting. Anything! She just stood there…out of view, STEAMING. She could have said anything at all but chose not to. Instead, she bottled it up and reacted in a irrational melodramatic manner that caused a scene. My perception? It was all a terrible miscommunication. I never saw her waiting, I never intended to cut her in line (obviously), and my mother never meant to intentionally bump her companion with our stroller.

Everyday the choices we make affect those around us as well as our own paths. They chose to be crazy neurotic types and have their day ruined while I chose to look at the situation and move on-- I'm glad I chose happiness and I wish they had done the same. Everything we do is a choice and I'm choosing to pay closer attention when ordering from the deli and continuing to choose joy on an everyday basis.

After all, perception is reality, isn't it? 

Thursday, January 23, 2014

OH, Elsa!


Now that I'm back in all my own clothes (yayyyyyy!) and winter has yet to arrive in southern California (no really, where is it?) I've been pulling out my favorite old and new Lilly and wearing it whenever I'm out and about in town-- running errands or meeting friends for lunch.

I've never tried on the Elsa top by Lilly but I'm going to have to do it soon now that they're coming out with a new Elsa every month this year in a new pattern! It seems all my Lilly loving BFFs rave about this top and it seems to flatter most everyone.

Last week Lilly unveiled the first SIX prints it will be offered in and I was so excited to see both Hotty Pink First Impression and Chin Chin in the first six. I'm nuts about both prints. I worry the flowers in First Impression might not flatter someone so, errr, top heavy-- but I'm willing to try it on and see! The Chin Chin pattern looks absolutely perfect and perhaps the timing of it coming out in May (first ever Mother's Day gift, anyone?) is pure luck!

I did cringe when I learned today they run $158 a pop. I've been buying Lilly on sale for so long I had nearly forgotten what full price looked like!

I sure hope the Elsa looks as good on me as it looks on everyone else and I love that Lilly is offering something NEW for Lilly Lovers to be excited about this year.

What do you say? Will you buy one of the new Elsas? Which one?